Anonymous
10/25/2025 23:39
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Late 50s men hit the same wall women hit at menopause.
lol no.
Do you not have eyes? There is definitely manopause.
I am a man. No there isn’t.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 19:42
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:So I am 54. I have always been baby faced and it’s benefiting me now, or so I am told. I am too heavy, although not really fat — I am broad shouldered with 48” shoulders and 36” waist, so I am not thin. My full head hair is more grey than not, and I let it be so. I recently started taking better care of my skin, so I don’t really show that. I am physically active and 25 years of cycling and umpiring make my lower half rock solid (I do maybe a thousand squats a weekend during tournaments, so my quads and calves are like tree trunks).
I told the PT tech I was 54 the other day and he goes, “you don’t look it, dude.” I was legit surprised because I think I *do* look it. But I will take the compliment.
I am not trying to impress anyone. I just got remarried. I’d like to be around another 30-40 years to be her husband and see my kids marry and have families of their own.
I do make an effort to dress well now, something I didn’t do when I was younger (and poorer!). Covid did that to me — I got so sick of living in joggers and pyjamas and sweat pants, so I have steadily built a real wardrobe and invested in quality pieces. I think this projects confidence is when I go out with my wife. She also puts more effort into looking good for our outings; it’s a virtuous cycle.
So, it can be done. I think. Like I said, I think I am old AF. But, apparently some people believe I look a decade younger. So, who knows? I do think I look better now than I did in my mid-40s…
Autism in kids born from older dads is a thing. If you already have first batch - ficus on them instead of making new ones that old….
Anonymous
10/25/2025 18:33
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
I think it depends on the man. My DH is 67 has only very recently started to annoy me with old man things.
For example, he hears me only about 1/3 of the time and refuses to believe it's him. For example: Me: "Which of these things (in the deli case in front of us) would you like?" as I look at said things. Him: "What?" Me: "I asked which one you want. You can't here me, Larlo and I'm right here." Him: "Yeah, but you were facing that way." So he's not losing his hearing ... I'm facing the wrong way. Sigh.
Another example, he refuses to adopt new tech. If the use of an app is required he just stands back and expects me to do whatever it is.
And yes, energy is a thing. He's napping. A lot. Sleeping later. He used to be full of energy. That's relatively new -- only the last year or so. He's very healthy and athletic, but clearly slowing down anyway.
But I'm X whereas he is Boomer, so I'm probably going to get annoyed more easily by "old man stuff," given the generational tension in there as well.
For example, he hears me only about 1/3 of the time and refuses to believe it's him. For example: Me: "Which of these things (in the deli case in front of us) would you like?" as I look at said things. Him: "What?" Me: "I asked which one you want. You can't here me, Larlo and I'm right here." Him: "Yeah, but you were facing that way." So he's not losing his hearing ... I'm facing the wrong way. Sigh.
Another example, he refuses to adopt new tech. If the use of an app is required he just stands back and expects me to do whatever it is.
And yes, energy is a thing. He's napping. A lot. Sleeping later. He used to be full of energy. That's relatively new -- only the last year or so. He's very healthy and athletic, but clearly slowing down anyway.
But I'm X whereas he is Boomer, so I'm probably going to get annoyed more easily by "old man stuff," given the generational tension in there as well.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 18:27
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
So I am 54. I have always been baby faced and it’s benefiting me now, or so I am told. I am too heavy, although not really fat — I am broad shouldered with 48” shoulders and 36” waist, so I am not thin. My full head hair is more grey than not, and I let it be so. I recently started taking better care of my skin, so I don’t really show that. I am physically active and 25 years of cycling and umpiring make my lower half rock solid (I do maybe a thousand squats a weekend during tournaments, so my quads and calves are like tree trunks).
I told the PT tech I was 54 the other day and he goes, “you don’t look it, dude.” I was legit surprised because I think I *do* look it. But I will take the compliment.
I am not trying to impress anyone. I just got remarried. I’d like to be around another 30-40 years to be her husband and see my kids marry and have families of their own.
I do make an effort to dress well now, something I didn’t do when I was younger (and poorer!). Covid did that to me — I got so sick of living in joggers and pyjamas and sweat pants, so I have steadily built a real wardrobe and invested in quality pieces. I think this projects confidence is when I go out with my wife. She also puts more effort into looking good for our outings; it’s a virtuous cycle.
So, it can be done. I think. Like I said, I think I am old AF. But, apparently some people believe I look a decade younger. So, who knows? I do think I look better now than I did in my mid-40s…
I told the PT tech I was 54 the other day and he goes, “you don’t look it, dude.” I was legit surprised because I think I *do* look it. But I will take the compliment.
I am not trying to impress anyone. I just got remarried. I’d like to be around another 30-40 years to be her husband and see my kids marry and have families of their own.
I do make an effort to dress well now, something I didn’t do when I was younger (and poorer!). Covid did that to me — I got so sick of living in joggers and pyjamas and sweat pants, so I have steadily built a real wardrobe and invested in quality pieces. I think this projects confidence is when I go out with my wife. She also puts more effort into looking good for our outings; it’s a virtuous cycle.
So, it can be done. I think. Like I said, I think I am old AF. But, apparently some people believe I look a decade younger. So, who knows? I do think I look better now than I did in my mid-40s…
Anonymous
10/25/2025 18:16
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'd love to see pictures of the women replying in this thread, lol. Hilarious image of tubby DCUM Karens talking about how they'd never touch George Clooney and Brad Pitt.
The OP’s question is about men. None of us are saying we look amazing.
Maybe get your reading glasses checked, Grandma. Lots of posters are saying that.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 18:15
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
I’d look for men your own age or a little younger. I’m early 40s and look younger. Husband is mid-50s and started looking old to me at 50.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 18:08
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.
Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.
However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.
TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.
Keep dreaming!
Anonymous
10/25/2025 17:54
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Late 50s men hit the same wall women hit at menopause.
lol no.
Do you not have eyes? There is definitely manopause.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 17:50
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
54 yo guy here. I better get some implants!
Anonymous
10/25/2025 17:07
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?ay
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.
Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.
However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.
TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.
Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.
I see many attractive 50s women profiles on Hinge in a large urban area. Maybe you live in West Virginia . Honestly, can’t even see a difference between 40 and 50 anymore - all the facial enhancements help women. Men rarely take a good care of themselves
I’m sorry, women in their 40s and 50s look old and unattractive. No surprise they aren’t the ones winning the beauty contests.
I’m a bisexual woman and wonder what differs in mens tastes vs women because there are definitely attractive women in that age group for me
Anonymous
10/25/2025 17:05
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Never met an attractive man in their 60s or 70s IRL. Where do you see these people?
My 60 yo DH looks like this.
He looks old so what's your point?
Anonymous
10/25/2025 17:05
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?ay
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women "hit the wall" as they say around menopause, so late 40s to late 50s women age fast.
Men don't hit a wall really, and age like wine IF they take care of themselves.
However like wine, eventually they do hit a wall, albeit a smaller wall, eventually. If they take care of themselves, that is usually in their 70s when they catch up to women in aging looks.
TLDR Women 40s-50s. Men 70s. Which is why a 10-20 year age gap is best for women/men.
Women who workout and take HRT age waay better than the men of similar age. Menopause or not.
I see many attractive 50s women profiles on Hinge in a large urban area. Maybe you live in West Virginia . Honestly, can’t even see a difference between 40 and 50 anymore - all the facial enhancements help women. Men rarely take a good care of themselves
I’m sorry, women in their 40s and 50s look old and unattractive. No surprise they aren’t the ones winning the beauty contests.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 16:59
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:In their 40s most start to hit a wall. Hair loss, starting to develop a stoop, greying, body weight distribution shifting.
After mid-40’s my DH looks okay but definitely acts older. Lower energy, falling asleep early, not flexible with thinking, loses patience.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 16:57
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:I'd love to see pictures of the women replying in this thread, lol. Hilarious image of tubby DCUM Karens talking about how they'd never touch George Clooney and Brad Pitt.
The OP’s question is about men. None of us are saying we look amazing.
Anonymous
10/25/2025 16:57
Subject: Women, at what age did you find men become "old"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Never met an attractive man in their 60s or 70s IRL. Where do you see these people?
My 60 yo DH looks like this.
He looks like this to you . And it’s the AI generated image. Post picture here and we’ll tell you his he looks to us