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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂[/quote]

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This is a huge trigger here.[/quote]

because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like![/quote]

Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women.  We're not fighting over the same men.  Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.[/quote]

This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse. [/quote]

You can just marry an older guy who is fit and doesn’t need a “caretaker”. They exist. Don’t judge all men by your fat slug of a DH.[/quote]

But why? Such a man wouldn't add any value to my lifet.  I have plenty of money, friends, my own kids, and sex is not exactly difficult for a reasonably attractive woman of any age to find.  Commitment to an older man, no matter how much he works out, would be a liability at this point. [/quote]

Attractive financially independent 40s women have no deficit of men their own age courting them. I have a suitor 1 year younger than me, he’s tall, educated and good looking. Full head of dark hair, smooth skin. I don’t see why I would need to date or marry a man in his 60s if I’m able to land 40s men from my own lane. [/quote]

That’s 40’s. Big difference. Come talk to us in your 50’s.[/quote]

When I’m in my 50s then I might start dating 60s men if I’m unable to attract my age peers. But I just don’t see too many 40s women  around dating 60s men. Maybe only Hollywood actors or Wall street bankers. But we all know why they date [/quote]

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