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Anonymous wrote:Someone above mentioned Karoline Leavitt, the White House Press Secretary. She’s 27 and married to a 59 yo man.

She’s playing in a way older league for her age. She’s the youngest press secretary ever for one of the toughest administrations. WH Press Secretary is not an easy job. Plus, if you consider yourself Christian - its a LOT of lying on a grand scale. It has to be hard on a person mentally.

She would be in that job regardless of her DH.

Pp here. I wasn’t insinuating that her husband had anything to do with her job.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone above mentioned Karoline Leavitt, the White House Press Secretary. She’s 27 and married to a 59 yo man.

She’s playing in a way older league for her age. She’s the youngest press secretary ever for one of the toughest administrations. WH Press Secretary is not an easy job. Plus, if you consider yourself Christian - its a LOT of lying on a grand scale. It has to be hard on a person mentally.

She would be in that job regardless of her DH.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone above mentioned Karoline Leavitt, the White House Press Secretary. She’s 27 and married to a 59 yo man.

She’s playing in a way older league for her age. She’s the youngest press secretary ever for one of the toughest administrations. WH Press Secretary is not an easy job. Plus, if you consider yourself Christian - its a LOT of lying on a grand scale. It has to be hard on a person mentally.

I did not follow this.

Is the poster saying that Trump's White House press secretary has a job requiring her to lie on a grand scale, so she benefits from a calm older husband?

Or maybe she's saying Christians have to lie a lot?

I'd marry someone thirty years older than me, even with advanced dementia, before I'd accept a job as Trump's press secretary.

Anonymous wrote:Someone above mentioned Karoline Leavitt, the White House Press Secretary. She’s 27 and married to a 59 yo man.

She’s playing in a way older league for her age. She’s the youngest press secretary ever for one of the toughest administrations. WH Press Secretary is not an easy job. Plus, if you consider yourself Christian - its a LOT of lying on a grand scale. It has to be hard on a person mentally.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂

+100

This is a huge trigger here.

because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like!

Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women. We're not fighting over the same men. Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.

This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse.

You can just marry an older guy who is fit and doesn’t need a “caretaker”. They exist. Don’t judge all men by your fat slug of a DH.

But why? Such a man wouldn't add any value to my lifet. I have plenty of money, friends, my own kids, and sex is not exactly difficult for a reasonably attractive woman of any age to find. Commitment to an older man, no matter how much he works out, would be a liability at this point.

Attractive financially independent 40s women have no deficit of men their own age courting them. I have a suitor 1 year younger than me, he’s tall, educated and good looking. Full head of dark hair, smooth skin. I don’t see why I would need to date or marry a man in his 60s if I’m able to land 40s men from my own lane.

That’s 40’s. Big difference. Come talk to us in your 50’s.

Anonymous wrote:Someone above mentioned Karoline Leavitt, the White House Press Secretary. She’s 27 and married to a 59 yo man.

She’s playing in a way older league for her age. She’s the youngest press secretary ever for one of the toughest administrations. WH Press Secretary is not an easy job. Plus, if you consider yourself Christian - its a LOT of lying on a grand scale. It has to be hard on a person mentally.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂

+100

This is a huge trigger here.

because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like!

Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women. We're not fighting over the same men. Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.

This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse.

You can just marry an older guy who is fit and doesn’t need a “caretaker”. They exist. Don’t judge all men by your fat slug of a DH.

But why? Such a man wouldn't add any value to my lifet. I have plenty of money, friends, my own kids, and sex is not exactly difficult for a reasonably attractive woman of any age to find. Commitment to an older man, no matter how much he works out, would be a liability at this point.

Sounds really lonely.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂

+100

This is a huge trigger here.

And why is that? I don't get why so much hate.

I think that women resent the idea of younger women getting the better quality older guys. There’s also some concern about a younger woman taking an interest in their man.

There’s a lot of resentment here for age gap relationships.

I don't think it's about resentment. Many older women do not want to remarry, especially women who are already at least 50, many view men as a liability. They've already raised their kids and cared for their husbands, and they don't want to do it all over again. Many older women cherish being single. They find companionship with other women or their children. Committing to a new man means potentially becoming his caretaker, accomodating his children and grandchildren, etc. It's just not appealing.

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We are not jealous. You young women want the old men, you can have them.

Anonymous wrote:Not all 60 yo are built the same. My husband will turn 60 in March and he is fit, doesn’t have a paunch or gray hair. Most people would look at him and think he is 45. Also, FWIW, he doesn’t need ED meds. He would be up for s3x 4 times a week. (Menopause has made me the issue there)

His brother OTOH is aging poorly. He is 58, with gray, thinning hair and a large paunch. You would never think that my husband is the older brother. They have a sister too. Most people who don’t know them would think my husband is the youngest.

People make all kinds of relationships work. I think you are fine

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Anonymous wrote:I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂

+100

This is a huge trigger here.

because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like!

Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women. We're not fighting over the same men. Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.

This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse.

You can just marry an older guy who is fit and doesn’t need a “caretaker”. They exist. Don’t judge all men by your fat slug of a DH.

But why? Such a man wouldn't add any value to my lifet. I have plenty of money, friends, my own kids, and sex is not exactly difficult for a reasonably attractive woman of any age to find. Commitment to an older man, no matter how much he works out, would be a liability at this point.

Attractive financially independent 40s women have no deficit of men their own age courting them. I have a suitor 1 year younger than me, he’s tall, educated and good looking. Full head of dark hair, smooth skin. I don’t see why I would need to date or marry a man in his 60s if I’m able to land 40s men from my own lane.

That’s 40’s. Big difference. Come talk to us in your 50’s.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂

+100

This is a huge trigger here.

because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like!

Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women. We're not fighting over the same men. Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.

This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse.

You can just marry an older guy who is fit and doesn’t need a “caretaker”. They exist. Don’t judge all men by your fat slug of a DH.

But why? Such a man wouldn't add any value to my lifet. I have plenty of money, friends, my own kids, and sex is not exactly difficult for a reasonably attractive woman of any age to find. Commitment to an older man, no matter how much he works out, would be a liability at this point.

Sounds really lonely.