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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m surprised OP doesn’t know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. 😂😂😂[/quote]

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This is a huge trigger here.[/quote]

because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like![/quote]

Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women.  We're not fighting over the same men.  Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.[/quote]

This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse. [/quote]

You can just marry an older guy who is fit and doesn’t need a “caretaker”. They exist. Don’t judge all men by your fat slug of a DH.[/quote]

But why? Such a man wouldn't add any value to my lifet.  I have plenty of money, friends, my own kids, and sex is not exactly difficult for a reasonably attractive woman of any age to find.  Commitment to an older man, no matter how much he works out, would be a liability at this point. [/quote]

Sounds really lonely.[/quote]

I’m not the PP lady but it can be extremely lonely with a partner with whom you are ages apart. When a woman is single she can just take  off and do whatever she wants. I’m single right now and in the last 4 months I traveled twice, went to several concerts and events, visited friends they visited me, spent time with my kids. I felt more lonely when I was married and you exH was always traveling for work. [/quote]

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