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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That is a total blow off, right?

Friends are trying to get together and one friend basically said she is never available. Can’t offer one date for the rest of 2025. She has 3 kids as do I. We all have 2-3 kids.[/quote]

I have 3 girlfriends from college and we all live in different cities in two different states. We try to get together 3 times a year. One of them is dealing with anxiety and depression and her work has been really difficult lately and her children are very needy (she has the youngest out of all of us, although he is in K now). We looked at dates in 2025 back in September and she couldn't do a single weekend. This isn't the first time she's missed a trip - we usually only see her at 1 of the 3 get togethers. It's not because she doesn't want to hang out but she just can't. We don't take it personally or hold it against her. People are unavailable for a number of reasons that don't have anything to do with you. That said, maybe she just has no interest in spending time with you.[/quote]

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