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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, after moving for an ex and then ending up in a far away state across the country (literally the farthest point I could possible live) I have been living a nightmare. If I could go back in time I would’ve consulted a lawyer immediately. It could’ve saved me a bunch of moves which have burned me - I thought going back to work, finding my own place that was bigger to fit my kids would help me but they haven’t. If I could back I would stay in the house and not work so I could collect alimony and child support. Please get a lawyer asap. [/quote] Wow- this is me 100%. He took everything- I had been out of the workforce for 12 years. With primary custody I recentered my career (sales) and was out earning him, - instead of being fateful to be off the hook for alimony or CS/ he chose to file for 50/50 the second he found out I was out earning him/ so that I’d have to pay him. I worked my ASS off and thought it would help me. Nah. Sit back/ collect your check and f these pathetic leeches. [/quote] Wait, so you thought you could make more than him and not pay child support? And why should he have been grateful that a grown woman acted like a grown adult? Men also work their ASS off and have to pay child support, why would the rules be different for a woman? NP and also a woman. [/quote] Read better the PP had primary custody. It warrants very little CS usually so little that it’s not worth paying for lawyers trying to get it. Her exH was an a..s [/quote]
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