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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Why does a woman have to have been promiscuous to enjoy non-vanilla sex? My experience has been that women who have had a limited number of partners are often the most adventurous and the most fun. What "type of woman" are you posting about?

[b]And I am not a man who wants to be "taught how to play". As noted, some men may be into having a woman tell them what to do. However, that is not me.[/b]
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[quote]It shows that you don’t like to listen to women and what they like in bed. By age 40 most women know which techniques and pressure points get them to O. You can’t change it with your techniques completely re-training the woman.

Your approach is a classic example of Madonna-Wh.. complex in men . It’s the most traumatizing male deviation, for both partners. Both will never get to fully open up in bed achieve full potential. She’s be coy about her needs imitating orgasm.

You have to work with a therapist to address it.[/quote]

No, it shows that I do not like women telling me what to do in bed. There is a big difference between a woman telling me (or showing me) what she likes and her telling me what to do. I have highlighted my PP so you can see exactly what I posted. I am dominant in bed; therefore, I prefer submissive women. That difference should be clear to you.

You can access all the pressure points and use the techniques you both enjoy without her telling you what to do and when.  You seem very experienced, so maybe this has not worked for you since you need to be in charge during sex. As I mentioned earlier, that is not my thing. If it is yours (which appears to be the case), rock on, sister.

Madonna/Wh0re complex you mentioned is not applicable. This complex usually manifests when a man cannot view his wife as a sexual being (e.g., he cannot have sex when she is pregnant), not when a dominant man likes submissive women. You need to understand that when both partners align their preferences (e.g., a submissive woman finds a dominant man), they can easily share what each likes in the context of their dynamic.

Your suggestion that I need therapy is likely a reflection of your inability to meet your needs (e.g., you think you want to be dominant but want to be submissive). In any event, your wires are crossed. 
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