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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s a loan under her name. Paying 1000k monthly while I have other student loans plus my husbands loans + daycare is a lot. I’m mad because of the way she handled it. She could have sit down with us and explained the situation- instead I get a random text with the log in for the loan telling me to pay next month.[/quote] Yes, she could have handled it better. But you also could have said, "Hey mom, I know you're in a financial crisis now because of the divorce. I bet paying for that loan is really hard for you. Would you like to split it with me going forward?" Each of you could have done better, but here we are. Hers is a reasonable ask, considering her financial situation.[/quote]
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