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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life isn't always perfect.  You forget the other half of the equation was the spouse that couldn't hold on to his wife or her husband.  If they lived up to their end of the deal, maybe their spouse wouldn't have looked and found someone elsewhere.  Some people divorce before looking, some don't.  Same difference in the end.[/quote]

I disagree. I think when a marriage with kids doesn't work out, it's a good idea to maybe take some time to reflect on what the hell happened. Sorry, but marriage takes two people to work and two to fail. If you married a person who couldn't hold on to you, it says something about you. It does. It doesn't say you are a bad person, but it does say you ignored signs, or that you settled for something. And I'm not judging that, I got to the brink of divorce and we had to ask ourselves those questions as we worked things out.

I also think it's a weird message to send to kids, just jumping from a married relationship with their other parent to someone else. And I can't imagine that it isn't awkward with family. I mean, you can't escape ex-inlaws if they are grandparents.

But, like you said, life isn't perfect. I hope everyone in your situation was able to find some peace. [/quote]

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