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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP.  Is it a given, when people recommend not confronting, that the bedroom is dead?  Because otherwise, how do you continuously refuse sex without letting on?[/quote]

Anyone??[/quote]

No it’s not a given. Some people are using protection like condoms anyway, so that’s about the same risk level most people go through life with. A lot of people really roll the dice and risk an STD. Sometimes the bedroom was dead to begin with yes. Sometimes it dies when the cheating starts because the cheating partner stops initiating. Or a woman can make up many excuses related to health issues that prevent sex, maybe men can too?[/quote]

To be fair, cheating doesn’t automatically mean STD. Obviously if you think he’s using sex workers or something that’s a different story. A lot of the affairs are just run of the mill. Mine cheated with his married coworker, also a mom. Neither of them had had sex with other people for over a decade when the affair started.

When it all came crashing down, there was a lot of issues we had to deal with, but STDs weren’t one of them luckily. [/quote]

Sometimes they are married to a closeted gay also having rando sex or one of the married partners is also cheating (cheater doesn’t know) or the woman has HPV and no symptoms.

No married people are not safe.  Those affairs are so stupid—no condoms because we are “safe”. They are older and stupid when it comes to protection as they came of age pre-online dating.  I know people that contracted STIs f  ET on disgusting cheating partners with this juvenile stupid mentality. [/quote]

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