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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here -

DH's family is a mess. FIL pitched selling their primary residence undervalued as a benefit to BIL/SIL but never ended up moving out. BIL/SIL cared for FIL as he was on hospice and now care for MIL as she's still not in AL. They've had to take time off work; it's been a considerable expense and time suck for them. I check in on MIL during the day as I am self-employed and bring her lunch. DH works 4 AM - 4 PM and visits on the weekends.

SIL floated the idea of a HELOC (or a reverse mortgage) to pay for MIL's care. The suggestions on this thread make it very clear that the cabin needs to be sold—end of story. I am not going to entertain this foolishness anymore.

The challenge is that DH's family is so emotionally attached to the cabin on a sentimental level that they will fight and argue about it.[/quote]
Why are you leaving out the part where it turned out BIL/SIL actually OVERpaid for the primary home?

At this point the person I’m most invested in is MIL. This family is never getting it together so I guess we just hope for a sinkhole to swallow the cabin while it’s empty so she gets the insurance

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+1 
And don't forget they find the treasure under the floorboards[/quote]
Heck yeah! Add that to the lore[/quote]

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