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Reply to "Wife dies and husband adopts their 1 year old out to the aunt."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, Think of it this way. It was the best decision of his life. And as PP said... men abandon children, even their own. Mothers are biologically wired to not abandon their children (with few exceptions), due to changes that happen in their brain during pregnancy, birth and the post-partum period. The bonding is far greater. [/quote] You could be right. He went on to have many broken relationships. Still, wasn't necessarily the best decision for the daughter. [/quote] Are you saying she'd have been better off with a father who doesn't want a child? At least the aunt was willing to take her in. I have to disagree with you, OP, but then, we only know what you've told us, and perhaps YOU don't know the whole story. This is all second, third or fourth hand, right? [/quote] No from him. He got the vasectomy so he wouldn't have a child he didn't want, and could fool around without worrying. True, better than abandoning more kids.[/quote] It sounds like he was making responsible decisions in the best interest of his child.[/quote]
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