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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the child is 5, she's probably starting K. If you agree to ROFR, for say 4 hours, the gf can watch her after school,  because dad said he gets home at 6 and school usually gets out at 3.

If Dad is working on a non school day, and Mom is available, she would have her. This applies both ways btw, if Mom was not available Dad could have her.

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Why would OP agree to this when the mom is erratic and vindictive? I these circumstances it’s better for the parents to have fewer points of friction and more boundaries. [/quote]

It's in the best interest of the child to have time with both parents. It's not all about the adults.[/quote]

I think you’re confused. The custody order would provide for each parent to have time with the child. “Best interests” does not mean that the non-custodial parent gets to take the child during the custodial parent’s time. In fact this could be needlessly disruptive and bad for the child. [/quote]

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