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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally. I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner. 10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.[/quote] I am you. Also divorcing beta (or is there lower than that) male (his affair). I am so sick of carrying all the decisions and strength in our relationship and never having an initiator or protector. I pray I’ll find a good man and am so achievers in my career and life now that I crave to take the secondary role. Where do high moral alpha females go to find similar alpha males?[/quote] The good alphas are long gone. Know few true alphas whose wives have careers. Even then, those wives are part-time docs and the family doesn’t depend on the wife’s income. Desirable men have the most options, and they rarely choose a woman who thinks her career should be more important than her family caretaking. Feminists don’t teach that pursuit of a career can have real, negative repercussions. [b]So ladies, teach your daughters that it’s often an either-or situation when it comes to love and career.[/b] [/quote] Absolutely not. Are you a man? What kind of garbage are you trying to teach young girls? You need to be a submissive SAHW with no income, control or agency of your own life just to find "love"? No thank you. [/quote]
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