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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that the apps are really killing the dating scene. My friends who primarily dated before the apps became the default for dating had much better experiences than my friends who are using the apps now. While they can definitely work, my sister met her husband on a dating app, it seems like they have gamified dating to the point that people date for sport and can’t give it up.  [/quote]

Apps haven't killed the dating scene. Women's poor behavior has killed the dating scene. [/quote]

Evolution made women hypergamous.  That doesn't make women evil, it's just their nature.  Women are the gatekeepers for sex.  Where women are allowed choice, they'll choose to sleep with the high value man every single time.  Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.  Ergo, those high value men will gladly pump and dump without a second thought.  Unfortunately, the apps make it all too easy to engage in this bad behavior.

Women don't benefit from being used and most men don't value by being frozen out of the dating market.  The high value guys, however, are loving life, even if it is a soulless existence of bouncing from one woman to the next.  Civilization used to have rules to create better outcomes for the people.  Unfortunately, folks thought they were smarter and could create progress by ignoring those new rules.  Of course, the progress has been illusory and led to lower satisfaction, especially for women.

Never forget that women were happier in 1970 before all the progress of feminism.  [/quote]

When I read books like Angela's ashes I do wonder though if that's true.  The 1940s seemed like a nightmare. And even high society like Jane Austin no one seemed terribly friendly. Always watching their step and back. Prohibition? Obviously signified some major issues with alcohol in the US. There likely were blips of positive decades but I don't think it's all rosy in the past [/quote]

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