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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If all this happened 18 mons ago, why are you/she bringing it up now? Clearly it's still an issue, and hasnt resolved just because your kids can put on their shoes. [/quote]

Because I was reading DCUM and people were talking about therapy so I thought about it?[/quote]
So your wife no longer thinks you need to seek therapy or she does? What is the point of this[/quote]

OP here again, you've really just increased my curiosity and bewilderment—[b]this insistence that a lack of interest in therapy must equate to a willful denial of any problem or desire to improve one's self, when it's totally the opposite.[/b] I identify and claim my shortcomings and think A LOT about how to improve them. I just can't see how therapy fits in that picture.

I think a therapist makes sense for people who struggle to articulate what bothers them or who are having trouble communicating with a partner or is a child who lacks the vocabulary to discuss how they feel. But I've got a whole list of things I'm trying to better about myself and sometimes I even manage to do it![/quote]
Did I say that? I'm just wondering why you made this post that specifically says "my wife thinks I need to see a therapist" but then all your examples are from 2 years ago. So if she's bringing it up, the issues haven't resolved. If she isn't bringing it up, this post seems pointless. You sounded open to therapy in your OP, but now it seems like you just want to sh!t on it and anyone who thinks its helpful. You wont even do a simple google search when people discuss various tools and methods. So it's pretty clear you'd rather stick your head in the sand. But maybe all your issues are solved now that your children can put their shoes on and you no longer need to yell at them about it. [/quote]

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