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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Just my 2 Cents here, It;s more harmful to the kids to pretend like everything is fine and was fine and mommy and daddy just broke up for funsies. Kids know I knew, and though I didn't have the words for it then I had that crazy making feeling of being gaslit. I was about he age of OP's son and I had questions I wanted answers. Especially since my parents put on a great front as perfect couple, upstanding citizens church goers etc. Eventually it all came out, and more than the split I was angry about the lies. Still had a relationship with my dad until he died. So I think there is room to be honest but without being destructive . I also think the kids need therapy so find a way to get that for the kids, OP. Their mother is a [b]narcissist[/b] and they are going to need all the tools in the world to deal with it. [/quote] Be careful of being an arm chair therapist and diagnosing a person without ever seeing them! A real therapist would never do this[/quote]
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