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[quote=Anonymous]Want to cut to the chase? Immediate and cost effective way to know if he is cheating. Get your ducks in a row. Then, ask your husband if he’s cheating. Know what you will do if he says yes. (And leave yourself room to change your mind.). If/when he says No of course not darling! Then you say ok good! So you won’t mind taking a lie detector test. I have arranged for one to be here at 8pm (or soon). Btdt and the Confession began, (so I canceled the test). Prior to this idea,. I spent hours and worried, checking phone, bank statements, hiding out down the street from his office, thought about spending hundreds at least to have him followed. Thought about putting a tracker on his car. But this idea was the simplest and cleanest and most reliable. Also btdt about the muddle. Nothing super wrong, not much very right. Lots of evasiveness. You have to know bc you wrote a clear statement that if he is, you’re done. So get that factor out of the way. If he is not cheating, appreciate him and take the long view of marriage and happiness. [/quote]
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