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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, does your fiance want to raise kids to be Catholic?  [/quote]

OP here. No. He went to church here and there growing up and went to catholic school but he’s not religious. He hasn’t been to church except with in years. We do not plan to raise our kids in any religion. [/quote]

Have you actually discussed this? He folded pretty quick with pressure from the family.[/quote]

OP here. He assumed we would get married in a church since everyone he knows has been married in a church. He was shocked when I told him I didn’t want to, and said all of hai family is expecting us to be married in a church. [/quote]

We rented the University of Maryland Chapel for our wedding.  Had never set foot in that place before, just went to school there.  You can find churches where they’ll happily take your money for an hour or two for a wedding.  You don’t have to jump through the hoops like a Catholic wedding.  I know of at least one outdoor chapel if you wanted an outdoor wedding and to satisfy your fiancés wish for a church wedding.  There are some around.  I’d think the fair compromise for both is a non-denominational church.  He gets his church wedding and you don’t have to do the whole catholic thing for no reason.[/quote]

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