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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your subsequent post is disturbing, as is your seeming disconnection from the kids and their interests. There are the struggles you face, and there are kids being left with someone who hits them. She sounds like her coping and emotional regulation are quite poor and you are leaving them in a very stressful situation for all 3.

Again, their physical and emotional well being have to come first. No point in trying is just more of the same passive victim crap.

To play armchair psychologist, I diagnose mom as Borderline and dad as a Narcissist. Classic combo and so sad and toxic for kids.

Kids that age should have a say in where they live. Would you be prepared to have them full time OP? Have you ever insisted that she get effective mental health treatment targeted at her parenting? Controlling her anger and emotionally connecting?

Maybe she wants you home because she can't deal. People who are controlling and lash out often feel very out of control inside. Seems like you (in a self pitying way) are setting a match to a combustible situation OP. Your kids aren't like the PP who had 2 stable doting parents.

How close are you living? Two nights a week during the week can be very disruptive to the social lives of kids that age.[/quote]

WTF? Sometimes two people are incompatible and divorce. There's not always DSM-IV diagnoses involved. [/quote]

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