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Reply to "The man I'm dating told me he'd like me to stay home after kids, I don't want to do that."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But the thing is… you won’t really know what YOU truly want until you have them! At least you know you have the option of staying home if you want to. With my dh, we both wanted me to SAh. After 18 mos, I knew I needed to go back to work. At that point, My dh totally supported me. I started back PT and through the years changed a few roles, added more hours and now out earn DH. I have also had friends who wanted to work and then changed mind one baby, others who DHs were very big earners but demanded their wife’s work. The ones who DHs demanded they work have never had really happy marriages. All that to say, one truly never knows what works for them until you are in the situation![/quote] Did you actually read the OP? OP’s partner is only giving her ONE option, which would be to stay at home. He is not giving her any other options. Your long story is completely irrelevant.[/quote]
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