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[quote=Anonymous]My husband has a more traditional mindset than I do, but only for men if that makes sense. Like he thinks it's his job to provide for the family and told me when we had our first kid that I could stay home if I wanted to, but he's supportive of my career and doesn't get pissy that I outearn him. I feel like this is a strange combination based on these boards (men with higher earning wives seem furious about it here, or use it to say she's not feminine enough), but I'm happy about it. He's also a very hands-on dad. He's also fine with letting me handle 90% of our finances, which is my preference and interest. Green flags were: his dad is awesome so he has that role model, he is a very good friend (and has close female friends), he has a very good/stable job but doesn't derive his sense of self from career stuff, and we had a lot of conversations around expectations of fairness.[/quote]
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