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[quote=Anonymous]					Why is there no hope of the marriage ever going back? You are both still alive, why not fall back in love again? Yes, I’m the poster who was described as “describing a fairy tale” and all I can say is I’m glad I’m not that poster, what a miserable way to view the world.

OP, you mention your wife’s stress and anger and lack of empathy. I’d be miserable too if my husband minimized my concerns and stress. I’ve found that the things I think about and care about as a parent are things I never thought I’d care about before I had kids. I’ve also found that I really need validation from my husband especially when the kids are being snots. When I don’t get that, I become a raving b***. 
I’m also really uncomfortable that you want your wife to take meds. You don’t want to be a husband to her yet you want her to still do what you want. That’s abusive. 
You also don’t seem to “get” that she doesn’t have to go along with what you want, though she’s probably desperate to keep her family together. I think you are using that desire to treat her horribly. 
Don’t be surprised if she decides to divorce you. She’s probably worried about how a girlfriend might treat her kids especially the one with special needs as those kids are more likely to be abused. 
Take meds if you need or want them, also know that love can do a lot for your mental health, though I’m sure you’ll find a way to minimize that as “just hormones” or whatever mean thing people say to disregard joy, love, beauty and anything fun warm and fuzzy. [/quote]

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