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Reply to "My 39 y.o. gym trainer is looking for a husband, with no success on dating apps"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a mid 40s divorced woman here, I have no issues dating men who are about my age, and who are open to have kids (usually adoption). What men hate most is clinginess, desperation or feeling like walking sperm banks. [b]Your friend is also jumping into beds too soon[/b]: she needs to date several guys at a time and at least do 6 dates to see if there is a good fit before sleeping with anyone. That would help her not to feel discarded after ONS and not get "stuck" in intimate relationships with people who are not good matches for her. She also needs to date guys from her own social circle and education level: dating in DC is very structured. Value of a woman is not decreasing with age: it's women's behavior that determines her value for men. Looks also help: men would rather date a beautiful mid 40s woman than a so-so desperate late 30s. The age difference is not that big for it to be a consideration. [/quote] Ding, ding, ding! I'm not being judgmental, but this is clearly not working out for her, so she needs to shift gears.[/quote]
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