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I know its none of my business, it just makes me sad how a capable, kind, relatively good-looking 39 y.o. has such a low market value on the dating apps. She meets up with around 2 guys every week, some younger, some older, hooks up with most, but none seem to want to have anything to do with her after a few days.

I don't want to discourage her, so I would never tell her, but what was she thinking in the past 15 years? The same woman, 15 years younger, would be considered very desirable.

Of course she wants kids and has told me that she got into debt to get her eggs frozen.

Women's market value really decreases a lot after 30.

I am 45, married for 18 years, teenage kid, my own house, earning well, etc. I am in a very different place in life. Side remark: The funny thing is that even though I am only marginally older than her, she considers me to be a generation older.

She doesn't want to date other trainers at the gym, even though there would be good candidates.

Any advice I could offer her? I am quite pessimistic about her prospects.
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You sound smug. Plenty of women find their happiness and enter into first and second marriages in their 40s and 50s[/quote]

As a married man, if I was single, dating sounds exhausting and expensive. I’d prob do the same thing those guys are doing and just sleep with your gym trainer friend and then ghost her if she was even the slightest bit annoying, saw me as a sperm bank, or worse. Life’s too short. And yeah 39 to have kids? I’m sorry. No. She should get invetro on her own or just bag it.
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OP here. I see your point. If I were single, I would find this dating carousel traumatizing. My trainer has told me about some of the nasty exchanges with guys who rejected her. That would be enough to make me quit those apps.[/quote]

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