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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you know basic psychology, its not hard to understand that among polyamorous, polygamous and swingers, some people have more power and others have to go along because they aren't the dominant ones.[/quote]

If you know non-basic psychology, you understand that some men are super into the idea of their wives sleeping with other men. [/quote]

I think you are confusing “psychology” with “pornography.”  
It’s okay.  It’s an easy mistake to make.  [/quote]

Very real, very common: https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/

And if your attitude toward common fetishes is this ignorant and dismissive, perhaps your husband is one of the men who has asked me to fulfill this kind of thing for him because he's ashamed to talk to his own partner. It's ok, though - I would never do it. It's not ethical, and also ostensibly monogamous men who are cheating on their spouses are a dime a dozen and just so much drama. Monogamous, lifetime commitments - I mean, who I am to judge, do you want, but the failure rate on that really suggests a problem. [/quote]

+1. I’ve had invitations from around 20 men to do this. I don’t understand it myself but it’s a thing. And plenty of the wives say they’re into it too. [/quote]

How could someone ask you to fulfill this kind of thing (cuckhold fantasy) because he is too ashamed to talk to his partner?  Wouldn’t she have to know about it too, and they would have had to talk about it together?  
 
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