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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] If I need help, I have to ask and tell him specifically what to do. It's like having a teenager for a husband.[/quote] 90% of heterosexual men are like this. They see you scurrying around doing all the housework and they think you like it. You need to assign him chores. Do yourself a favor and assign him the ones he is less likely to F up. You may have to train him like he is a 13 year old boy. Sign your boy up for cheapo karate at the community center and your DH's first chore is being taxi. You don't need a nanny, you need a mother's helper because you are not leaving the child in her care. Look for a college kid. He doesn't think you're truly mad at him because you haven't cut him off from sex. You're still speaking his love language. Stop letting him use you as a masturbation sheath. "I am mad at you because XYZ so I don't want to have sex with you right now." The solution for the 1 week fishing trip vacation is he takes the son or he doesn't get to go!!!!!!! You need to think about why you are attracted to Catholicism while you're mentally flirting with divorce. Are you interested in Catholicism because you're trying to stay married? You don't need to justify that to us but you do need to think about it. That is not that much debt. Don't let it take an oversized role in your life. If he made financial decisions without putting you in the loop that is a problem. Ultimately it comes down to one question: Will he change to avoid divorce? That ball is in his court. [/quote]
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