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[quote=Anonymous]The DCUM First Wives Club has found this thread, clearly.

OP, don’t listen to 99% of the posters on this thread. There are PLENTY of people who have sex w someone who isnt their spouse and a) dont fall in love b) their spouse never finds out c) their kids never find out c) nobody goes crazy on anybody. It just doesn’t make for good Lifetime movies or good gossip while waiting for the kids to finish catechism class.

That the First Wives Club doesnt seem to realize is that life is long, marriage is hard, and it is all confusing. These black and white positions they have taken (cheating bad, must be sad and lonely like me) dont really work for many, given that life doesnt throw only black and white, cut and dried situations at us.

Sleeping with someone who lives elsewhere and has no ties to your family seems like a very safe way to get your needs met. Think through how your spouse could find out, and just dont do those things. Such as using your regular texting app, stepping away from a family dinner to text him, letting your kids use your phone if your communication tool w him isnt pwd protected, etc.

Do what you need to do for yourself and your family. Be safe. Live your life. Dont let the overrectionary miserable DCUMiens make decisions for you. [/quote]

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