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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean I don't really understand the issue.  You've been married for 25 years, your kids have launched, you have no financial troubles.  You are fond of each other but have no interest in sex.  Well dear no one person can fulfill every wish you have.  You're a prime candidate for a very civilized arrangement where your marriage (social standing, friendship, financial ties, camaraderie etc.) is protected but you have a bit of fun when the itch needs to be scratched.  I'm not American so perhaps I see it differently.  I would consider it only a mild irritation if my husband had a diversion.  I would certainly not hesitate to help myself to something fun if the circumstances were right.

I mean come on.  You are well past the point where you can legitimately say, my sex life is my own. [/quote]

EXACTLY. And in this scenario, I think being discreet and not telling DH is actually the kind thing to do.

Surely her DH cannot expect OP to never have sex again?? That is not reasonable.

You have an obligation to meet the sexual needs of your spouse. If you can’t, you shouldn’t complain when they step out on you.[/quote]

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