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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe she’s the only non drinker. [/quote]

I suspect this is a factor for what happened to my friend's daughter. Her 11th grade DD was the only one in her friend group who was left out of a Halloween party. She doesn't drink. It looks like the other girls are starting to party.

The sad thing is that this is how peer pressure starts. It's the ultimatum between party or get kicked out of friend groups. My DD is in 10th and also doesn't drink. She declined some invitations to parties with alcohol and even drugs, and now she just doesn't get invited anymore. She's starting to make some other friends who also don't drink, and I hope they all stay the course. I can see why some of these teens feel like they have to start partying just to have friends.[/quote]

There are plenty of kids that go to “party” but don’t drink or smoke. And some that feel peer pressure will even fake drink thru the night.

I don’t judge parties because I was a partier in high school. Not the brightest choice but some of my best memories. But I never did drugs and never got plastered. And we always had a DD.

But ppl that don’t even want to attend sometimes get the holier than tho vibe and it’s annoying. Some just don’t go and still hang with those ppl in other circumstances. It really depends.

But having friends to be with on the weekends is key. Some move around friend groups. I left plenty of ppl that were doing lots of drugs or just f’ing anything that walked every weekend. [/quote]

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