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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP.

I grew up with abuse and made the decision to leave at a young age. Still, because I lived it for so long, it feels natural when I get angry or fight with DH to want to hit. I hold back and thankfully have never done it, but I dont think most people have the urge and sometimes I hate myself for that.

OP, did this happen in front of your LO? You haven't come back to answer that.
Either way, you're not horrible, you just need help. immediately. I would even go to the ER & check myself into the psych ward if you're feeling that out of control.

I agree with pp, your dh is an ass & I think you lost control because he used you to hurt your daughter.[/quote]

Not, OP.  I also grew up in a highly-abusive home.  I left at 14.  The residue of those early years definitely rubbed off on me.  I get angry and it's natural for me to want to yell and hit.  After hitting my son, I immediately sought professional help for me and him.  I still feel quite guilty about the rage that I feel at times.  People generally perceive me as easygoing and pleasant.  Talk therapy, getting enough rest, exercise, developing better communication skills, and staying as stress free as possible have really helped me.

OP, I hope you're still reading these responses.  The help is out there, you're aware that you have a problem.  Just help yourself, your little girl really needs you and the quality of your life will change.  [/quote]

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