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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For people who have been together over a decade and still do it 2x/week or more: have either of you gained more than 10lbs? [/quote]

Yes.  I’ve gained about 30lbs. 
Unless you gained so much weight that you aren’t able to physically do certain things, [b]I don’t really see how this matters[/b].

I would say that going through difficult emotional or health crises and fighting/feeling like the other person doesn’t care matters a lot more. [/quote]
Really? My DH's big stomach is a huge turnoff for me. I have to do it in the dark and not touch him there for it to happen.[/quote]

I understand what you are saying, but I really don’t feel this at all.

I mean, if you are relaxed and happy and in love with your husband, and he loves you, and you both want to have sex, and his stomach isn’t limiting anything you do with him in any way, why would looking at his stomach make you want to limit your own pleasure and satisfaction in that moment?

On the other hand, if you are in pain, exhausted and stressed, and you are angry with your husband because he is calling you lazy and refusing to help you out.  You don’t feel love, and you don’t feel loved.  What could looking at a thinner stomach possibly do to make you interested in sex?  [/quote]

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