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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In front of you?

My boyfriends teenage sons are fairly polite and civil to me in front of him.

They are much less nice to me when he is around.

Which feels very….manipulative.

I haven’t decided yet if it’s a deal breaker [/quote]

Oh big typo sorry

They are much LESS nice to me when he IS T around. Curt one word answer, unpleasant facial expressions. Nothing solid I can report to my boyfriend but just a very unfriendly vibe.

I did not meet my boyfriend until two years after the divorce so no I am not the AP[/quote]
Why do you even need to be around them when your boyfriend isn’t there? They are allowed to not like you.[/quote]

They don’t need to like me, but they do need to be civil and polite to me, as I am to them. I’m not alone with them for long stretches. I’m talking like, we are sitting at dinner and dad goes inside to get something and their attitude completely changes for the few minutes thwt he is gone,[/quote]

You aren't mature enough for this situation. Please end it[/quote]

You think it’s immature to expect teens to treat people in a civil manner?
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This board of full of so many bitter exes who don’t want their exes dating or remarrying…..[/[/b]quote]

This an example of maturity and politeness?

What I and others are trying to get through your head is in general teens are rude they aren't interested in engaging in chit chat with most adults and definitely not dad's girlfriend. Sure it's frustrating but it's also developmentally normal.

You also seems m completely clueless about how there noms abandonment has and will continue to impact them. You seem to have zero empathy are very focused on yourself.
You aren't equipped to handle this situation and I say this as someone who is the second wife/ stepmom
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