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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just wanted to comment from another perspective.

I am 52 and never married - there are a variety of reasons why I have avoided marriage but one of the primary reasons was my realization from a very early age how rampant infidelity is at least among men- I cannot speak for women because I have never cheated in a committed relationship.

But as a pretty enough girl who was ‘built like a brick sh*thouse’ as my leering father used to say, I got hit on by men A LOT from age 14 until very recently when health issues caused a very significant weight gain. I can’t even remember all the times I was being hit on by married or committed men - I’m sure many who I thought were single were not. I only ever slept with one man I knew to be married - but only because I’d already slept with him a couple of times before he confessed his marital status and I very briefly faltered in my otherwise solid morality on the issue, but broke it off within weeks because I honestly could not sleep for thinking of his wife and children. This is doubtless because I saw my mother emotionally destroyed by my father’s repeated infidelity in their marriage.

Anyway so yeah, a lot of men are cheating. The stats vary so I don’t believe them I just trust my own experience. And I did not ever accept any of the proposals I got because I saw how this can destroy a woman’s psyche along with the family’s dynamic and I’d seen firsthand that the odds of a good sexy guy staying faithful were way too low for my liking, I am a risk averse person.

Oh I also forgot I spent a summer working weddings at a lovely Maine resort and I walked in on infidelity happening, on the wedding reception day, in closets and bathrooms alike.

In fairness once it was the bride doing a groomsman. [/quote]

Yikes![/quote]

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