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[quote=Anonymous]I did love sex a lot when I was younger, and I had a fair amount with too many different men - most of whom hurt me very badly. If there was one thing I could change about my life it would be how easily I gave myself away to those men. I’ve done a lot of therapy and I understand that my serious daddy issues (he was horribly abusive to my mom and us kids) were at the root of my desperation to find love and that of course my hormones also compelled me to act outside my best interest. With age I became much more discriminating - by my early 20s I was achieving so much in academia that I wasn’t as desperate for male approval and I didn’t want to have sex with anybody who didn’t treat me well.

I think it’s great that women are saying no with more confidence and certainty these days. If men want sex, I’m pretty sure they could get it if they simply treated women better than most of them do. But they have a long way to go. I’ve been celibate by choice for 12 years now (I’m 52 and not unhappily single) and when I read on this board in the relationship threads I see women discussing relationship dynamics that I would simply not be willing to tolerate.

I don’t hate men - I’ve had many dear male friends over the course of my lifetime and some family members who were reasonably good guys too. But I do think that male behavior is general is not a net positive to society - or to themselves. I think the evidence of this - the violence against women and children and other men that is so rampant and mostly perpetrated by men - is simply undeniable. Whatever other progress we have made as a species, unless the typical ways of being of the human male change substantially in coming decades, we are headed to eventual extinction.

I don’t know the answers to how it happens, but I know the red pill contingent isn’t going to be part of the solution.[/quote]

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