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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm happy for a friend that after 7 years of infertility, over 10 rounds of IVF with and without donor eggs and a surrogate they finally have a baby but I'm pretty sure it's amounted to 200K or more for a baby that isn't biologically hers. Would you do the same?

I feel like at somepoint I would pursue adoption because it's essentially the same. (Fwiw I'm currently undergoing IVF and am already hesitant to spend the cost on it.)[/quote]

Adoption isn’t the same at all. Potential for kid to have trauma from separation, drug/alcohol exposure during pregnancy, and issues with birth family. [/quote]

Every newborn taken from her mother is traumatized, even if the separation results in a better situation. It’s baffling that this isn’t common sense.[/quote]

No, it's not trauma for every newborn.  Stop projecting your issues.[/quote]
NP. Adoptees have high suicide rates. There’s a reason why so many fewer countries allow international adoption now versus 20 years ago.[/quote]

No, that's not why.  Why?  There is now the Hague and other countries stopped adoption due to child fatality, unable to do ethical adoptions with birthparent consent, and other reasons.  It was not suicide rates.[/quote]

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