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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're tired and on your own. They suck. You are not alone. Husband not deployed. ILs made it clear that they had already watched enough of their grandchildren (DC is by far the youngest of 8). Sure, lots of our friends were getting more help. We have never had a weekend away as a couple because there is no one to leave the kid with. It was hard not to be envious, but it was what it was. We might have liked more help but were not going to get it, and ILs were going to be jetting off to Mexico or where ever for the winter. It's okay to vent but eventually you have to move on.[/quote] I should also add that 10 years later we now also get the primary responsibility for the ILs as they are now more aged. It's like having toddlers with more rights. And, no, you just can't refuse to do anything and can't just tell someone with dementia that you aren't going to pay their bills for them. Swell... :roll: [/quote]
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