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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Red blooded male here with a girlfriend.  I can’t help but notice sexy women in tight, revealing clothing.  Most men are like me. If you’re a sexy woman and you wear sexy clothing, you will get sexual attention.  So I don’t like my GF wearing it out when I’m not with her, and she doesn’t want a bunch of horndog men leering at her. So I’m with OP here.  She is out trying to attract the attention of horndog men.  And certainly succeeding because we are everywhere.  Of course he doesn’t like it. [/quote]

So when creepy men leer at women in body armor, mechanic overalls, sweat pants or medical scrubs, do you still blame the women?

If only someone would invent a clothing garment that could put a stop to this entirely preventable leering. We could insist women wear it outside the home. Oh, wait….[/quote]

Your question is different from the one at hand. No one is blaming GF for wanting attention, if that’s what she wants. But it is valid for OP to be concerned about the attention GF is seeking while at work. [/quote]

The PP is saying girlfriend shouldn’t wear a dress he finds sexy because gross men will be gross

Breaking News: Gross men will be gross regardless of what a woman is wearing. Wasn’t a woman sexually harassed literally asleep in body armor? It’s time to take the views of men out of decisions about what women wear. [/quote]

This is disingenuous. Yes, gross men will be gross. And it's not appropriate for anyone to ask a woman to regulate her dress based on the gross men. HOWEVER, a woman can also dress in a way that is sexy, is intended to be sexy, and is intended to draw attention based on sexual interest. It is not unreasonable for a man in an exclusive relationship with that woman to be unhappy about his partner dressing in such a way for an event in which he has no involvement. [/quote]

So what if she likes getting sexual attention?  That doesn't mean she's going to act on it.  Are you seriously arguing that, once they're in an exclusive relationship, women have to dress in a manner that never invites sexual attention (as if that were even possible)?[/quote]

It sounds like she needs to talk to her significant other or a therapist, not pull out the freakum dress.[/quote]

I pity the sheltered life you have led that a sheath dress with a low back is what you consider “freakum”.

There are support groups to help people reintegrate with society in a way that helps them understand that women have a right to wear whatever they want in U.S and all developed western cultures.[/quote]

This is not about rIgHts, that’s a non sequitur. It’s about communication and mutual respect for your partner.

You sound selfish.[/quote]

Your view of “communication and mutual respect” is that OP should be allowed to tell his girlfriend how to dress. It’s absolutely about respecting the rights of your partner to be an adult member of society who can choose how to dress.[/quote]

Choose how to dress.
Choose to rock a pornstache.
Choose when he comes home at night.
Choose whether to buy random women friendly drinks or not.
Choose to get a face tattoo.

Yup, every adult has rights!! Women don’t EVER comment on this sort of thing from their SO’s, nor should they! Sounds like a recipe for success. 
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