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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]also...let them take care of you!  when you get home from the hospital, have them prepare meals for you, run to the grocery store, pick up baby/mama supplies thy you didnt realize you needed, do dishes, and help wash laundry or clean the house.

The reality is that both you and DH will be tired and want to rest at times when the baby may or may not be asleep.  Let the moms hold and rock the baby while you are sleeping, showering or taking a short break....

You don't have to let them be in the delivery room whil you are in labor, but why not let them be one of the first people to welcome baby into the world?[/quote]

this never works (The let them take care of you). People get in the way, start telling you what you are doing wrong, and generally are not helpful since they are still guests in your home.  People mean well but they like to impose and that causes more stress. I wish I had stuck to my original plan but instead was left crying from having to deal with obnoxious people that I knew had the tendency to be obnoxious. How is it unfair for his parents not to stay? You are your mother's child, You will need your mother and not his.[/quote]

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