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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hmm? Still waiting! Still waiting for OP or any of her defenders to address this point:

If my ILs were horrible/rude, I would want to see ***less of them,*** and I wouldn't want them around my baby. I would do cartwheels for every time I didn't have to see them. Heck, my ILs are all-around very nice and fairly unproblematic, and I would still like to see less of them. So please, by all means: take a shot and rationally try to explain to me how OP is justified in thinking they are horrible people, AND wanting them to visit/hold/give gifts more? I would love to see you try to make sense of that. Can you?[/quote]

NP. I understand OP’s feelings. She wants her IL’s to magically become close family who treat her well and instantly bond with her. She also wants them to read her mind and be on the same page with her, which is controlling and immature. Maybe she just needs to grow up a little. I understand her feelings more than yours ie wanting to see less of your IL’s who are very nice. That’s just strange to me.[/quote]

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