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OP, if you're still reading this thread: Some posters, I suspect the same person or a very few people, keep coming back again and again to blame you and to call you names. I'm sorry. There are people out there who come onto threads just to insult and blame OPs, especially OPs who are women talking about husbands' behaviors. I truly recommend that you leave this site and get into therapy as fast as you possibly can--individual therapy, not couples therapy at this point (or maybe ever). You will have some tough times ahead as you assess whether there is anything to save or whether to leave or whether to tell your DH you both need marital counseling or whatever. But you need not to listen to the trolls who come here just to bash and blame.

Spend your time instead finding outside help and someone to listen to you objectively and determine the dynamic that's going on and where both of you are feeding it. Use the list of therapists your insurance company covers but be aware that you may not be able to get in with one of them (it's hard to find therapy right now, many doctors are swamped). Contact a Women's Center for informaiton on sliding scale or "pay what you can" therapy. Look at online therapy but check that sources are reputable. Look up "grey rock" in relationships and see if that can help temporarily to cool down things and get you some calm space as you consider this relationship and what its future looks like.[/quote]

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