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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Set expectations from the start of the call - 'mom, I've only got 30 minutes and then I need to go to [work, doctor, whatever] but I wanted to make sure to talk to you' and then when you've got five minutes left remind her. Treat her like a child: set expectations, give her a warning, hold firm. You're a good and kind person - use some of the kindness directed at your mom on YOURSELF too.[/quote] OP already said this does not work. It's a tough situation. [/quote] But OP controls how long they spend on the phone. So, if she follows this poster's advice, it will work. (Does not mean her mom will be happy or pleasant, but OP is control of how long they talk.)[/quote]
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