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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has the jealous Dh already expressed being upset by the idea?  Will the kids miss a planned visit with their dad? If not, love your life the way you see fit and hold your head up high. You’re not doing anything wrong. You do need to get out of the habit of getting full family feedback for everything. Your in-laws’ opinions shouldn’t  matter (but glad you feel supported). [/quote]

DH doesn't know.  I'll make my decision before I tell him anything.  He might miss the actual time slot for one visit, but we can shift things around, particularly with the kids off school, so he won't miss any hours.

I'm totally confused how I've gotten that I get"full family feedback" for everything.  I've talked to the SIL and BIL who invited us.  That seems pretty normal that you talk to the people who invite you to do things.  My IL's are worried that my kids will lose their connection to family, so I can guarantee that they will like the idea of my kids being on vacation with cousins.  But I haven't actually talked to them.  [/quote]

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