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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP has young teen children and is losing her husband.  She will strongly driven to attempt mate poaching in this scenario.  It is easy to justify.  Bils kids are adults so divorce won't impact them as strongly.  When the inevitable happens op will claim it.just happened and they were like twin flames. She never saw.it coming. It's not her fault.  Besides she deserves to be happy. All the usual excuses.  [/quote]

The fact that your mind goes these is twisted.  But this dark fantasy has no relationship to my situation.

—OP[/quote]

So, if that is the last thing on your mind, what is so awkward about the situation, and why did you even make a post?  Go on your innocent family vacation and enjoy. [/quote]
Maybe because of what she said?…. her soon to be ex gets jealous and other family members weren’t invited.[/quote]

She didn't say he got jealous about this though.  She also claims it is totally innocent and he is mentally ill.  Why would you even consider a mentally ill person's paranoia about a.totally innocent trip, especially when the mentally ill.person hasn't actually.objected to it?

Obviously the idea is inappropriate aside from her husband's jealousy because both people are.without spouses under vacation circumstances, they know each other.well,.already have a.close.emotional connection, will be in close company, there.will.likely be alcohol available too...Exactly the kind of recipe where cheating is accident.wsiting.to.hapoen..All it takes is a.careless match to light that.flsme.  op knows.darn well it is.inapproproiate.regardless of.her.hisnsmds.jealousy.  the tip off is when she said.how.dare you think that.possible.  If op didn't think people might think that.she.wouldnt.hsve posted.

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OP here,

He hasn't objected because none of us have brought it up to him.  He objects to things like me attending a parent teacher conference with a male teacher, or me talking to a male soccer coach alone on the sidelines of practice.  So, I think it's likely he would object to this.

I won't drink alcohol on this trip.  You can't "accidentally" cheat on your spouse, so I don't know what that's about.

I don't say "how dare you think that's possible" so I can't address that point.

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