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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the advice and BTDT on this thread.  I really appreciate people taking a few minutes to share their kids' experiences.

To be clear, my priority is no way my friendships with these girls' parents.  I have plenty of friends from other areas of life (work, grad school, neighbors).  But is it really that unusual to become friends with some of the parents of your kids' friends?  Our kids chose to be friends on their own (in no way social engineered) and I have spent hours upon hours with these people on the sidelines of games, at BBQs, school events.  That evolved into adult dinners, parties, even travel.  My questions was whether I should reach out to find out more about what is going on, again not applying pressure to include DD, just to better understand the source of the problem.  Most of the responses have been a resounding no to this.

DD is not at a super small private, and it expands this year and in 7th, so seeking out friendships with some new kids is a really good idea.   She does tend to be dramatic, and maybe that is a turn off to some of these friends.  But the hurt she is feeling is real, and I've see with my own eyes the overt meanness on multiple occasions, so she is no way making this up in her head.

Thanks again for some of the tangible advice provided about how to help DD develop a thicker skin and become more resilient.  [/quote]

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