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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]are you a good host? It sounds like there is something missing. Maybe she feels unwelcome and it’s provoked anxiety. [/quote]

Im not sure?  I don’t drink much and go to bed early. I do all the cleaning without complaint. I’m happy to make all meals or split them if needed. But I do shop at Walmart (it’s the closest!). Flo doesn’t clean, Hank does all the kids stuff, but takes over the kitchen. Again this is fine but don’t rage and get angry and scream if something isn’t to your liking. Again- three different pairs of footwear to get from the outside to the bedrooms!

I think you are a bad guest if you insist on cooking all day, causing everyone else to handle all the kid stuff and chores

Get mad constantly. She’s mad because I didn’t insist on her children wearing the deck shoes on the desk and the house slippers in the house. Her slipper rules are stupid and I was frankly a little mad that she insisted the socks would then be thrown out. My floors are clean! I have kids so I clean every day!

Try to control everything!  I get that she can wait until almost 11 to have dinner and she wasn’t hungry at 9 for breakfast, but I’m not going to let my kids suffer because an adult woman is hung over and has an elaborate idea of what she wants to eat. Kids don’t mind bagged salad, crappy pizza and frozen waffles!

Berate and abuse your spouse. Not okay. I agree with another poster that we’d probably call the police if Hank treated her like this. Then again, Hank is a huge guy and makes way more money than her. [/quote]

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