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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your son should see a therapist for coping skills.  Look at DBT.
Have your son talk directly to the judge.  See if he can do it in private.[/quote]

My kid is in therapy.  Choosing to take a break from someone who has traumatized you, and using healthy things like physical exercise to manage stress are coping skills.

They did talk to the judge last time.  In MD, 16 is the age when the judge needs to take their wishes into account though. [/quote]

Traumatized.  How was that?   Sounds like the judge thought visits were best.  [b]He can exercise on your time and not the few hours with dad[/b], aunt and cousins.  [/quote]
It seems he is going on these runs to get away from his dad so doing it on his moms time would undermine the reason for doing it.[/quote]

He runs pretty seriously, but the point in leaving would be to get away from and make a statement to his dad.  Otherwise he’d go before or after.

He didn’t end up leaving, he ended up separating himself but not leaving the house.  
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He sounds like a spoiled brat.  Call an emergency court hearing and stop visits.  Or, [b]offer no visits for no child support.[/b]  [/quote]

OP here, my kids' Dad is far from perfect, but he's not going to sell his right to visit his own children, or fail to support his kids out of spite.   The fact that you'd even suggest that is a sign you are a terrible person.  [/quote]

OP, you are far from perfect either but you are basically saying you don't want child to visit dad.  The entire point of this thread is how to get child out of visiting their father and the way you are doing it is to encourage him to go for a "run."   So, you have two choices.   Time to put aside your differences for your son's safe and work together or terminate all visitation but it sounds  like the judge will not agree so your only option is to refuse visitation (like you want to) or have him agree.  He should not have to pay child support if you want to be the  only  parent and stop his visits and not allow him to have any parenting input.   Basically it  comes down to money.  If he's an ok Dad, you are the  terrible person for posting this and finding ways to have your child get out of  visitation.  So, he clearly isn't that bad of a Dad or person per this latest post or you'd be in court with an emergency hearing.  Stop the games.[/quote]

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