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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP again: Family is huge to us so navigating how to handle this so that we feel comfortable with is our guide. As we left this morning we closed up with all new codes and will probably add cameras. DH is going to talk to his sister and our working plan is we’re still doing LDW. Not only are cousins close (our daughters are best friends, talk about rooming together when they get to college) and end of summer tradition is something we like too. Hopefully DH/his sister talk goes well, air is cleared - but I am staying out of that!!.

To clarify-the family who was there when we arrived clearly didn’t expect us to be showing up and started making those dramatic motions of packing up while at same time doing that pause, waiting for us to say please stay. Again-despite it being a second home w/pool, pool house - this isn’t a big place and so it would have been majorly uncomfortable with unknowns being there too so any suggestion we let them stay-urgh no!! Pool has automatic cover and the controls are inside locked pool house.
Also SIL family/we are basically same financially and we’re not new money - just making it through like most people. We pretty much lucked into making decision early in marriage to buy this place (still in apartment when we got it.) [/quote]

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