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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am ok to withdraw the privilege of using the vacation house from SIL and BIL, but I think it is extremely l petty to cancel the holiday plans for a misunderstanding. Seriously, tell your DH to use the opportunity to put cameras in place and shut down on family using your place as an unpaid AirBnB going forward. It is a good lesson learned. But, don't be so emotionally immature and dysfunctional to cut off relationship with your siblings and nieces and nephews. Ugh. [b]Actually, I would blame you for not setting boundaries and expectations up front. [/b]Are you guys new money? Blue collar background perhaps, and maybe now you and your DH are better off than the rest of the family? It sounds like that kind of dynamics. It seems like a difference in SES norms. [/quote] Found the gaslighter. [/quote]
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