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[quote=Anonymous][quote] This post has some good advice in it. The bold is NOT among the good advice. OP should not descend to the AP's low, low level. Plus: The effort OP would spend on finding out how to tell the AP's husband is effort OP should be spending on other things like talking to a lawyer and a therapist and doing the self-care the PP rightly advocates.

Also, OP, you do not owe this PP, or any of us here, any further details about the other woman or her marriage etc. At all. Nope. [/quote]

I think you are wrong.  If there is another betrayed spouse in this scenario, OP should tell that husband.  This isn’t to punish the AP (even though she deserves it), but to inform the other spouse of the truth of their own life, allow them to protect their own health (much like multiple posters have advised OP to have STD testing) and, in the event OP wants to try and reconcile with her spouse, having two sets of eyes on the situation is helpful.  The betrayed spouses can also compare notes on the stories they are being told.  Not the point of telling at all, but  actions have consequences- why protect the AP?  OP doesn’t tell to be vindictive, she should tell because people deserve to know the truths of their own lives.[/quote]

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